I’ve been reminding myself to say yes more often. Selectively of course, not yes because I feel obligated but yes because I see a favorable opportunity.
Insert text message from friend “hey do you like beach music, wanna go to the festival with me this weekend?” Honestly I’m indifferent to beach music (or I was at the time) but – try something new, spend the day with a great friend – can’t go wrong. Especially when it’s the kind of friend that one minute can have a thought provoking conversation and the next have me in tears laughing.
It couldn’t have been a more beautiful day in SE North Carolina. We started with brunch and bellinis cause – brunch and bellinis am I right? Full bellies and happy hearts we waited in line for our seats at the Greenfield Lake Ampatheater. Which is a great venue boasting views of the lake, cypress trees covered in Spanish moss and for our concert a nice breeze. We saw three groups, Band of Oz, The Embers and Chairman of the Board. The latter being my friend’s favorite, and they didn’t disappoint. I loved their funky sound and equally funky matching blazers. (Sorry no photos, I was busy enjoying myself) After the show we went for dinner and continued our visit. Good times, worth saying yes.
`In contrast, some experiences merit saying yes to but are grueling to get there. We, my husband and myself, spent many wonderful years with our two pups – Kalie and Strider. The years were worth every moment, but saying yes again, getting to that point, it took a great deal of effort. It had been nearly 8 months since we had been dog-less. My mindset was evolving from I miss my dogs to I just miss having a dog. More uncertainty and mental processing…. Then I saw that squishy face and read the phrase “loves belly rubs”. The rest is dog hair on the floor. Meet Boomer.
With summer approaching and and a dog to trip over in the kitchen, it’s taco time. I wanted something sweet, smokey and kinda funky. Once I work out all the kinks I’ll post the recipe, but for now lets just talk about the marinade. Maple syrup and smoked paprika – that gives it the sweet and smokey, and now for the funky; red curry paste. Lime juice and some other mess, oh talk about a great flavor clash. So say yes to the funky taco, the dog hair and a new experience. That’s all I got for now.